Show of hands...

Okay, who here has had to deal with a fucking asshole of an ex?? I'll bet there are many!!

Rather than type out endless paragraphs, I'll give you hi-lites:

1) My daughter has not been to my house in over 3 weeks, because there are no rules at fucktard's house, and there are at mine. He refuses to bring her over. I'm not going to MAKE her come, but will be filing a petition for contempt with the divorce court. She and I argue, but only because I set limits, especially concerning this new "boyfriend" she has, who drinks and smokes pot. :-(

2) For over a month, I've asked for the Christmas decorations. Not the ones for the mantle (which I don't even have), but for the TREE. He finally delivered some - thrown in a box with 1/2 of them broken.

3) I found out the kids have not had health insurance since fucking AUGUST. Again, he's given me a runaround about this (ie. lied through his fucking yellow teeth) and this will be included in the contempt petition. He is responsible for insurance while I'm in school.

4) I bought season passes to the ski area for the kids (we alternate years). His responsibility this year was to get those who needed new boards/skis/gear the stuff. Taylor, Nate and Macey still don't have theirs, even though the mountain has been open for 2 weeks. Fucker.

5) He still hasn't told me if the land will be surveyed and listed by 12/31. Won't even talk to me.

6) He owes me 1/2 the money for Nate's Washington, DC trip. Almost $300. Money I could have used for Christmas.

The kids will be here through Christmas Eve, then go to fucktard's around 7pm. I think we'll also be doing Xmas with my father that day. I'll be at the guy's house for Christmas.

My first Christmas without my kids. And all this bullshit is not making it any easier.